[monaghan]

Click on the down arrow after Send/Recieve to get the menu and select the disable send/recieve from the send/recieve settings sub menu

MS Does seem to know best with these things though - I love the way a Windows update will shutdown all by itself even if an app is open when a normal shutdown would prompt the user to save. Fortunately I've only lost the occasional MySQL query when I've left it unsaved and gone to bed.